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Kevin Bracker's avatar

Great piece and thanks for sharing the insights. It is interesting that we often need to fight the advertising agenda in order to appreciate the simple things in life. I hope you enjoyed your trip!

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Tom White's avatar

Amen. On happiness: “Though perceived externally, it is an inside job. It’s less about the smile and more so the soul. It is assurance of one’s goodness by doing right by yourself, your loved ones, your world.

Above all, happiness is a byproduct, not a destination or end all be all.

It is not a target at which to aim, but an outcome which to savor.

How can one find it?” https://www.whitenoise.email/p/happy-is-as-happy-does

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Frederik Gieschen's avatar

Thank you for sharing the piece!

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Tyler Corderman's avatar

Your writing is excellent. Thank you for sharing with honesty and authenticity. It is a gift to hear your thought process as you work through one important idea after another. It deeply resonates with me. Have a great day.

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Frederik Gieschen's avatar

Thank you, Tyler!

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Matthew Moreo Gutierrez's avatar

Hope you had a great time upstate. Nature and exercise always heal - the simple things

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AMillennialBudFox's avatar

Loved this piece !

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Frederik Gieschen's avatar

Thank you!

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AMillennialBudFox's avatar

Greetings from Greece!

Appreciate the interaction!

(Also, shared this one on my LinkedIn)

Keep well 💪

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Antti Luomala's avatar

Thank you. An amazing text!

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Nov 5, 2023
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Frederik Gieschen's avatar

Indeed. The more meaningful the relationship, the deeper the bond, the more vulnerability that has been offered, the greater the possible hurt. Such is our lot.

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Nov 7, 2023
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Frederik Gieschen's avatar

I agree that the goal should be love without expectations. It starts with self love. Osho called it the first ripple from which all other love spreads out. That is, unfortunately, a difficult place to reach for many.

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Jianghong Ying's avatar

I could totally see your point and I think the only comfort I could offer is the quote from Charlie Munger, 'get the toxic people out, fast'

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